When a relationship ends, women can't help asking themselves, where did it ever go wrong? They ask their friends, family, therapist, or atleast one of the above. Sometimes they spend weeks even months balming themselves, and give up on all hope of ever trying to find the right guy again. Once they understand what happened, it takes a 1000 ton weight off their shoulder, and helps to repair their broken heart, and they can move on and find a guy who will them forever....
They Want The Perfect Partner-
Most men deep down have this idea that there is a perfect person out there for them. This 'perfect' mate will not only accept him fully for who he is, but he will be able to reveal parts about himself that he's had to keep hidden from most people. She'll bring out his best and ultimately give him the true fulfillment he's always been looking for. As supposed to being more realistic, being with a girl who criticizes him and makes demands on him. His 'ideal' partner will love him unconditionally and fulfill every one of his desires.
If you want him to truely feel love for you, don't necessarily ignore this desire of his. Try to play it out the best way you can, and then you'll be that ideal person in his life.
Men Want Adventure-
As soon as some men see a relationship as stifling his basic need for adventure, he can feel himself to be trapped in a prison without bars. Many men then blame the relationship for the dilemma he is in. They do not realize that their true need is to find adventure in the relationship. A woman who does best in this kind of relationship is one who provides challenge.
He's Dealing With Past Relationship Problems-
This is very common that a guy has had negative experiences in his past that extend into his present life. He had a hurtful and frustrating experience with a women who burnt him when he tried to give his best, and give his love, and it caused him pain and suffering. This is a very good reason why he may be closed to fully giving himself right now. But, it doesn't mean he will always be this way. If you are understanding, non-judgmental and patient, with time you will show him that he can truely open his heart to you.
Fear Of Commitment-
It may be very likely that he is afraid to commit to something, simply for the reason that he is a man. Men value their freedom to have choices, do things on their terms. When the thought of commitment comes up on most guys' minds, loss of freedom, slowing down and loss of excitement tend to get associated with this word. So if you can ensure that your guy will still have freedom to be alone and do things as he pleases, if you can be exciting and spontaneous(show your wild side) and not enforce your ideals on him. You will allow him to enjoy all the benefits of being single, while commiting at the same time.
Fear That They Can't Satisfy Their Women-
And lastly, men have a tendancy to believe that they just don't have enough to satisfy the women in their life. They convince themself that a woman is deserving of more, and they give up thinking about a long-term relationship. This is why alot of men can't go the full distance with a woman. They don't have enough faith in themselves, and lack the emotional maturity, so they never get past attraction at the mere physical level.
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